Wednesday 29 April 2015

Friends.

Feeling kinda done with friendship groups at the moment. I have my best friend of going on ten years. Since we started this school year, I introduced her to another friend, lets call her A. They became really close and have recently been leaving me out a lot. Which I'm surprisingly cool with. Then my best friend comes back to me complaining about A. She's been bitching about A calling her stuff because of boys. Yet now my best friend and A are closer than ever.

Friendship groups are pathetic. My older brother and sister have told me you barely speak to anyone you went to school with once you go to college. Don't go crying if someone doesn't like you. Don't be a bitch. Just go with it and be friends with who you want to be. Don't be someone you're not. Don't cry over little things.

I feel more mature than a lot of the people in my year. Maybe it's because I have an older sister to look up to. I don't get involved in arguments. Arguments about stupid things like someone being left out of a party or an event. Rumours about someone calling another a 'bitch'. Please, rise above it and get over it. You won't remember it in a few days,weeks or years to come.

Chill out, and go with it.

4 comments:

  1. i know exactly what you mean! i have been in a massive group, but now i am happier in a group of 3 or 4 people!
    hop you can check out my blog and follow,
    ~basicallychloe xx
    don't forget to smile!
    www.basicallychloe.blogspot.com

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    1. I agree, i think everyone obsesses over it sometimes when we're only there for a couple years and then go separate ways x

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  2. I can totally relate. If you ever need to talk you can talk to me. I' be your friend XD I have this friend I met at the start of secondary skewl and I invited her to hang round with me and my friend from primary and now. Half way through secondary skewl them two are like so close and I feel like an outsider. So I know where you're coming from xxx

    I love you and your blog. You sound so inspiring. I'll be sure to follow!

    Keep smiling!
    InnerSmile xxx

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    1. It's amazing to have such positive feedback. Was feelings pretty down but you've cheered me up. Yeah, although I don't really know where i belong, i'm happy. There's many other girls getting bullied ect. I'm happy and lucky to have a couple of close friends.

      Thankyou for your comment!x

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